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Posted 9/2/2014 4:52 AM (GMT 0)
my neighbour and good mate has passed. her son rang me late last night as he could not get through to her. her friend arrived and i thought i would go and say g'day and tell her to call her son. we knocked, nothing. the doors all locked and the dogs barking. i had to break in the house through a high window and i found her. been a traumatic day.
Posted 9/2/2014 8:38 AM (GMT 0)
Oh Jamie, what an awful this to have to experience.

Put your right hand over your heart and know that you did all that you could for **** . You have wanderful memories of popping over there, those in time will come through the horror you are experiencing now.

It is never easy losing someone and the trauma of discovery is devistating. My John knows he went through the same thing. Hang tough my Happy Turtle her spirit is watching over you for a few days, before moving on.

Peace love and hugs
be safe
Trina
Posted 9/2/2014 8:50 AM (GMT 0)
thx ever so much. this has happened twice before. discovering. not nice at all. my sis has been around for support. called mum as my mate and mum were good friends as well. phoned partner, although it was the middle of the night for her. i just left a message. cancelled appointments for this week.
Posted 9/2/2014 9:27 AM (GMT 0)
Sigh. They say it is so final when someone passes.

However, the close people have to stop their day to day lives and get so much done to honor the person in death. That it never really does seem final.

Peace love and hugs
Trina
Posted 9/2/2014 9:51 AM (GMT 0)
very true.
Posted 9/2/2014 10:45 AM (GMT 0)
Oh Jamie- please accept my hugs and prayers. I know this is a difficult time. We are here for you.
Posted 9/2/2014 11:18 AM (GMT 0)
thx. bit numb at the moment. burning sage to help cleanse and harmonize.
Posted 9/2/2014 11:21 AM (GMT 0)
Jamie,

I am so sorry about this. I know you were very close to her. Hang in there sweetie...

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 9/2/2014 11:30 AM (GMT 0)
i am trying. been holding it together. just the vision of her as she was, which was not good, is flashing around in my head. thx for your care and compassion guys. partner and i skyping soon.
Posted 9/2/2014 12:07 PM (GMT 0)
Sorry for the loss of your dear friend. My prayers and thoughts are with you and with your friend's family and loved ones. Sounds like you were very close, I know it's cliche, but try to think of the good times, the happy times you had together, the times that made you laugh, the times that made you feel close.
Posted 9/2/2014 12:19 PM (GMT 0)
I'm sorry to hear this sorry. We are here for you.
*Hugs*

UA
Posted 9/2/2014 12:34 PM (GMT 0)
How very, very sad for you. Please draw strength from the thoughts and prayers of this community during this time of loss and grief.
Hope
Posted 9/2/2014 12:54 PM (GMT 0)
Hugs hon. I am sure she is glad her friends checked on her.
Posted 9/2/2014 3:57 PM (GMT 0)
So, so sorry, Jamie. May peaceful thoughts be with you.

Jan
Posted 9/2/2014 6:45 PM (GMT 0)
I'm sorry Jamie. It's normal to be having those visions but know they will pass. This is a difficult time but just remember you've gotten through 100% of the bad times, you'll get through this one. My condolences and sending you light, love & comfort.

Lisa
Posted 9/3/2014 2:19 AM (GMT 0)
thx guys.
Posted 9/3/2014 3:56 AM (GMT 0)
I'm so sorry for your loss, I know it must be hard to lose a friend. I'm glad she had a friend like you to check on her.

I'm sending hugs your way!
Posted 9/3/2014 6:00 AM (GMT 0)
:-)
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