very depress

I have been dealing with depression and anxiety for the last 2 months. Also I have been suffering from insomnia. I recently broken up with my husband from 7 years. We never marry But we have all those years together and a daughter, I have gone through so munch with him,he use to tell he was tired of just anxiety. I Feel so depress because I havent been able to get Well.I get dizzy a lot,get a lot of headaches, dry mouth, tiredness, chest pain,feel put of air,But so hard to sleep.

The good part is you were never married to him so legal hassles are less to deal with but emotionally you might be overdrained causing insomnia and anxiety leading to depression or vice -versa.

letting go of a relationship is really hard emotionally as you have spent so long time with this person and are emotionally invested.
see a doc for sleeping pill and ssri for helping to cope with some preoblems ,rest you need to take charge as you have a small girl to care for.

Life is extremely hard and breakups precipitate depression so be careful.

I am myself in same boat as you and so much emotionally attached to my husband ,home ,family ..its hard for me to breakup but for my husband its easy as have different emotional/mental make up.

even he is abusive i am ready to stay with him /though so many family /friends have asked me to move on,i can't as i love him truly.

I am extremely depressed by my situation and taking sleeping pill and ssri to help but it helps upto a point ,rest is upto us.

take care of yourself and daughter and keep posting ~

Kei and Cilly,

It is sad to know that men can still in this day and age abuse women. Still so common.

Know you are not alone, we are here for you. There are many people, women out there ready to help you when you are ready to take that brave step and leave.

You both deserve so much more in life than to be put down and abused etc...

Kei, consider yourself lucky not legally ramifications, unless he tries for custudy. Work on your self esteem it is there some where, waiting to bloom.

Peace and courage
Trina

Keep your daughter's best interest at heart and you can not go wrong... The rest falls into place...

I hope your day got better today.

Keep posting and know we care...

Hugs, Karen...

Thanks you are so helpful that's what I need people like you guys to get through this

Thanks I will be posting my healing hope I do.

I am new to this site at least as far as posting. I've been reading some of the forums for a few weeks now.

I just had to stop and say that I agree with seeing a medical doctor.  Make sure it isn't something medical that is making you feel this way.  Then you can go from there.

Post Edited (emwell2) : 9/19/2014 3:33:40 PM (GMT-6)

Welcome, Emwell. Good point.

Kei, you need to see a doctor. The way you are feeling is not normal, and a doctor could help figure out some things. It would also help to talk with someone. This person can give you tips on how to cope and how to restart your life.

I know it sounds like a lot. But, truly, we cannot heal without help, and all too often pride keeps us from saying, "Help, please."