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Posted 6/1/2015 5:22 AM (GMT 0)
Hi, I'm new here but I’m desperate to talk to someone. I'm 5 months pregnant and things are really getting on top of me, especially work. I feel like I'm being given to much work to do, but when I talked to my boss I realized it wasn't just me finding it hard to cope. She has given me a couple of days off work and I've got a doctor’s appointment on Thursday. Being single, I worry about money, having a baby and getting work done. What can I do to stop worrying too much? cry
Posted 6/1/2015 8:48 AM (GMT 0)
Sorry to hear you are having such a difficult time. It makes sense that you would worry about things with a baby on the way. Perhaps your doctor will have a suggestion for you. Have you tried meditation?
Posted 6/1/2015 5:00 PM (GMT 0)
Welcome to the forum.

Is the father of the baby in the picture at all? Can legally press him for money support?

Tough questions without knowing your situation, sorry for that, but responsibility lies on both side when it comes to a child... You should not have to push your health to the limit, if there are other choices.

Wishing you peace and strength
Trina
Posted 6/1/2015 6:58 PM (GMT 0)
Fran - I was a single parent, too. You have a lot on your mind right now; I can really relate to that. What kind of work do you do? Is it physical, or 'desk' work?

If it's physical, that will make your delivery easier, as you would be getting lots of exercise. If it's mostly sitting, you need to find ways to get up every hour or two and move around your work area. (Your Little One will appreciate this!)

Do you have some support lined up to help with child-care after delivery? This was one of my biggest challenges; almost lost my job because of having to work on Saturdays. Money can get pretty tight, too, when you are purchasing endless packs of diapers etc. I used cloth at home to save money, sitters would only use the disposables.

I think 6 weeks is the paid leave for pregnancy. Or it used to be.... Hopefully your health will cooperate and you can work right up until you're due. Do you have good health insurance?

Take extra good care of yourself, get plenty of sleep. Network with your friends and family to get some emotional relief. Talk to your Pastor, if you have one.

Many of us have been blessed with 'surprise' pregnancy, so you are not alone out there. You will be ok. breathe deeply, don't be afraid to ask for help. Take it one day at a time.

I will be thinking of you! Fresh Greens
Posted 6/2/2015 10:57 AM (GMT 0)
Fran, welcome to the forum. Have you applied for W.I.C.? Women, Infants and Children? It covers food items for pregnant women to ensure you get appropriate protein for yourself and the baby. After the baby is born, it helps with nutrition for you if you're nursing or formula if you are not. As the baby starts eating cereals and baby food it helps with those, etc. It doesn't cover everything you will need but it is a huge help for keeping the grocery bill down. Many food banks are starting to carry diapers too. Are you involved with a church? Some of them have ministries to help single moms.

Single moms are very courageous people. Welcome to the 'sisterhood'! You are NOT alone!
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