My boyfriend passed away

my deepest of condolences. a lot will happen quickly, but this person is forever in your heart. i have been there, it is a rough and confusing time. sending prayers of peace to you and the members of his family.

OMG!!!!

Crispy, that was definitely sudden. I am so sorry... My condolences... I barely know what to say. One moment at a time... Can you see your therapist? You need somebody to talk to.

Know we are here for you hon... Hang in there...

Hugs, Karen...

Again, I am so sorry... Hang in there sweetie...

Gentle hugs, Karen...

So very sorry for you

Oranged, thank you for your support.

Chris this is from Karen.


"You have to do it on your profile. She can't see this, so if somebody else would tell her that would be awesome...

Hugs, Karen..."

I want to tell how overwhelmed I am for you. I can't imagine how you feel, I can only say the overflow of sadness and shock I empathize with.

Everyone grieves in their own way Chris, so whatever feels right to you, doesn't harm you, is what is correct.

I know that in circumstances such as yours, many people after a while, find that purchasing a new mattress aids in moving on. I am not suggesting immediately. Just something to write down.

Talk about him as often as you can, getting the pain out, celebrating his life, is a good way to begin healing some of your loss.

I wish you Peace and comfort. Gentle hugs.
Trina

Hi guys, thanks for all your positive words. I guess I'm still in shock I don't know it's confusing right now I can't think straight I'm tired and I medication is not working for my pain and I went to the hospital and all they gave me was Toradol which doesn't really do anything it was kind of a joke it took the weight pain down just a tiny bit then went to sleep and I woke up with just as much if not more pain. However, the good news is I get to have surgery on Friday and although this may not be the best of times to do it I don't care I just want I'm tired of being in pain.

I can imagine that you are still in shock.

I hope your surgery goes well. I hope you got me off ignore so you can see this post.

Know we are all here for you...

Hugs, Karen...

Hi Karen yes I could see you. Good to see you.

Can't wait for the anesthesia I'm tired of hurting

I am sooo sorry for your loss KChrispcat. Condolences... This is shocking!

I hope your surgery goes well tomorrow. Thinking of you...

UA

Good luck with the surgery, I hope the recovery goes well.

Be gentle with yourself, this is a tough time emotionally and physically even without the surgery.

Peace.
Trina

Thank you everybody for your kind comments and reassuring words. The last couple days I've been just a whirlwind of physical pain and mental pain I don't know which is worse they're pretty much equal messed up thankfully I don't usually feel both of them at the same time.