no idea what to do

This is my first time on a forum like this.  my name is anthony and i work in a walgreens pharmacy.  i see people that are "depressed" several times a day, and i never thought that i would be one of them until now.  around the middle of july i broke up with my girlfriend cause i could have sworn on a stack of bibles that i meant the girl of my dreams.  in my mind she was everything i could ever want/need in a woman.  there was/is is small problem though.  she is one of the managers of the store, but that didnt stop  us.  i was ready to lay it all on the line for this woman.  The first date we had was awsome.  we drank a few beers and bs'ed about cars and life and such, and we even "fooled" around a lil bit.  After that night she stopped answering my phone calls never called me back and would barely talk to me at work.  she later appologiezed for this say she knows that pain she put me through and yada yada yada.  since she hung me out to dry the first time i have ran back to her once and had the same thing happen to me.  this is killing me.  i cant sleep i barely eat, and i always have this "anxious" feel most of the day.  its driving me up the wall, and i have no idea how to handle this.  if anyone can give me any advice i would truely appericate it.  thanx for your time guys

try and stay busy, dont be alone if you can help it, if you have friends plan some fun things to think about. be lucky you found out before ya got real serious. i was dumped by email, and i was married to the woman. i am heartbroken and much older than you are im sure. its very hard to trust people, good luck to ya

Hi Anthony, Welcome to healing well, we are happy to have you.  I am sorry about what you are going through but I think you need to try to put the situation into perspective here.  She is the manager of your store...correct?  You’re an employee...correct?  I'm sure that Walgreen's most likely has a policy against management dating or fraternizing with employees.  Even though this didn’t stop her in the first place with your initial encounter perhaps this is why she has put the brakes on there after.  I don’t know.

I do know that it is never a good idea to date someone where you work as it can only cause trouble if it doesn’t work out.  And with her being in a management position you really have to be careful here.  I really believe that you should heed the advice given above and seek some counseling to help move on from this.  Please know that you are more than welcome to keep posting here...everyone is so supportive and caring and always willing to help. Take care

Hi Anthony. I'm sorry to hear about the pain your going through with this woman. I've dated a person I worked with in the past and I know how difficult it is when things don't work out. Its hard because you can't get away from the situation. I think she probably doesn't know how to handle it either and that might be part of the problem. Its hard to date someone you work with. My suggestion would be to transfer to a different store and move on with your life. Maybe if the two of you didn't work in the same place, you could see each other? Who knows. I just know that if the two of you continue on the road that you're on now, one of you will probably end up losing your jobs because its just too uncomfortable or because your emotions get in the way of your job. I ended up leaving my job because it was the only way I could get away from the situation. Good luck and best wishes.