Patient!
I have some great news for you. My daughter has had symptoms Crohnes since she was about
5 yrs old, had her first fistula at age 17 and has been struggling for years with this DD. When she got pregnant her Crohnes went into total remission. Her gyno had put her on special elevated levels of prenatal vitamins because he was concerned about
her absorption issues with the messed up gut. He's thinking that the prenatals might have something to do with the remission so she has stayed with them even after stopping nursing.
She is still in remission! Might work for you.
Also, she had been on antidepressants and the doctor took her off to prevent any harm to the baby. She had her low days (hormones) and her great days and a very understanding husband helped her make it thru. Hope this helps.