I am having other probs besides be dejected by my friend. My husband had it with the kids not cleaning after themsleves, and screaming at eachother keeping the upper level of house so dirty, and they dont help me clean it. I get the laundry and the dishes done daily. maybe vaccumming, if i dont feel too tired,I have fibro, ibs, arthritus, so it gets hard on me, but people cant see it outwardly. my son and daughter jump in my bed with me at night to go to sleep.My son is 13 well old enough to not jump in bed with me anymore, he doesnt do it to much sometime for a few seconds to aggravate me. my daaughter sleeps with me, and i cant change her. her room is a mess. So long story short my husband had nowhere to sleep, so he bought a bed and put it downstairs in extra room, bought a lock andkey and thats where he sleeps now. which doesnt make me happy. But how can I blame him. I dont like the effexor myslef,makes me to tired , and on my phychs first choice of over the effesor, but hes out of town til may, So im stuck with effesor. I feel the wellbutrin may make me less tired. so any thoughts would greatful or experience with it. I have tryed the wellbutrin er but was on nothing else, i lost 13 pounds which was good, but i was edgy on it. but this time i would take the reg wellbutrin, and im on klonipin this time which should counter the edgyness.