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Posted 6/3/2009 6:28 PM (GMT 0)
thought i'd say hi kitt. hope is all well. have a nice day. jamie, keep up the good work. smilewinkgrin
Posted 6/3/2009 9:24 PM (GMT 0)

Hey jamie,

I had a minor melt down today but I am starting to feel better.  It happened when I was driving so I did pull into a parking lot and called my daughter..............and I did drive the rest of the way home safely.

It is hard to accept that I am not near as tough as I would like to believe I am but I am a work in progress every day of my life.

Thank you for asking.

Hugs

Kitt

Posted 6/4/2009 4:29 AM (GMT 0)
You are a huge inspiration to all of us, Kitt. I don't think being strong means to be unaffected by difficult situations, but to have courage to go through the pain and have faith that you will eventually experience healing. And you are doing just that! What a good decision you made to pull into the parking lot to call your daughter so that you could make it home safely. That is strength in and of itself. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

NW
Posted 6/4/2009 7:09 AM (GMT 0)
i second nightwishe's post. keep strong, we love ya, okay, jamie
Posted 6/4/2009 12:07 PM (GMT 0)
Night Wish is right, Kitt....it takes strength to go through the pain and find a way to heal. Please do share with us if you feel up to it. There are a lot of people here who care about you.
Posted 6/4/2009 12:13 PM (GMT 0)

Thank you each for your kind remarks and Jamie for starting this thread.

Today I am working a long shift at school and want to see my granddaughter tonight as it is her 18th birthday so I am trying to stay in the moment.

I will share more soon,  I promise but for today I want it to be about my granddaughter.

She is one of the loves in my life.  I am so full of joy at the thought of spending time with her.

Hugs

Kitt

Posted 6/4/2009 12:33 PM (GMT 0)
Kitt, I hope you have a wonderful celebration with your granddaughter tonight. Seeing you post that you are full of joy about this is really good. Hang onto that, and keep us posted.
Posted 6/4/2009 5:37 PM (GMT 0)
Kitt I'm so sorry to hear what happened when you were driving, when you can share with us more on what actually happened I would like to hear. but I'm glad that things went ok and you arrived safely at home, and also about your grand-daughter graduation I'm so happy for you, I hope you have a good time, and know that you are in my prayers every night, I hope you will get better soon :)
Posted 6/5/2009 5:32 AM (GMT 0)
kitt, hoping your special day went well, take, luv, jamie. smilewinkgrin
Posted 6/5/2009 11:12 AM (GMT 0)
Kitt, I just finished reading the other thread. I'm sorry that your granddaughter made other plans, and did not spend time with you yesterday. I'm disappointed. I was hoping that would lift your spirits. Please do post when you feel up to it. As you can see, there are people here ready to support you.
Posted 6/5/2009 11:36 AM (GMT 0)

Good Morning All,

Thank  you for your support and kind words.  Today is our 38th Wedding Anniversary..................and tonight Kayla graduates from High School.  I will be at the  graduation to see my first grandchild graduate. :-)

I am trying to stay in the moment.  Today is the frist day of the rest of my life.

Kitt

Posted 6/5/2009 11:46 AM (GMT 0)
You sound very positive this morning, Kitt, and I hope you have a wonderful time at the graduation. Keep the faith!
Posted 6/5/2009 1:33 PM (GMT 0)
excellent!!!!!!! smilewinkgrin
Posted 6/6/2009 1:45 AM (GMT 0)

Kitt, congratulations on your wedding anniversary.  That is really something to be proud of.  It takes work to have a good marriage and it looks like you and your hubby have found the secrets of success for such a long marriage.  Also, congratulations to your grand daughter on her graduation.  That will be very special for you and I am sure you are just beaming with pride. All the best for this very wonderful day.

Hugs,

Aurora

Posted 6/6/2009 11:38 PM (GMT 0)

Aurora,

Thank you so much and I did have a great day yesterday and was beaming with pride as my sweet granddaughter graduated last night.  The weather was perfect for the Commencement Exercises which was held at our McNamara Stadium at Todd Field.  The Select Chorale performed 2 beautiful songs and Kayla was front and center.  She is also a member of the Global Language Honor Society.  She will be going to the University of Wisconsin in the Fall.

My husband and I have been very lucky and even thow we weather some tough times  more then we would like and struggle with the economy at times we are together and we balance each other somehow.

So I had a good day yesterday and today has been good too.

I wish you peace and I know someday you will be the Mother of the Groom and it will be perfect. 

Hugs to you

Kitt

Posted 6/7/2009 2:53 AM (GMT 0)
Kitt,
Just wanted to send you peaceful & healing thoughts. I'm glad to hear that things are going a little bit better. Please don't sell yourself short about how strong you are. Many a weaker person would have been completely paralyzed by all you've been through. I know it's tough, but you have kept on & that is really an inspiration to us all. Keep going & know that the journey will get easier as you keep fighting for a position of strength.

blessings to you & your family,
frances
Posted 6/8/2009 11:05 AM (GMT 0)
kitt, i second frances' post, completely. jamie, luv 2 you.
Posted 6/8/2009 12:46 PM (GMT 0)

Thank you both Fances and Jamie,

It is a busy time and that helps.  I have been feeling better and I was remembering my sister last night and missing her as she is not here to celebrate the good times, the dance recitals, the graduations that are going on in my life. 

Then I remember how worried she was about knowing I would be alone without her and no other siblings, Mom or Dad in my life and how much she wanted me to be OK.  So I told her in my prayers that I am OK and I will keep on living my life.................as she would have wanted me too.

I must stay in the moment and keep on moving forward as you cannot live in the past.  It hurts to much.

Love

Kitt 

Posted 6/9/2009 3:17 AM (GMT 0)
completely understand, jamie. keep positive my friend!!
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