Jen you have my full support. I cant imagine what you and your hubby are up against. I believe you are an adult making an informed choice in a difficult situation. Dont let the negativities of others upset or deter you. And enjoy your birthday. Im always here-
Maz XX
ps. i was going to the computer off, oh well i feel better with responding to you all. take care, and know i have you both in my thoughts. jamie
Thanks for understanding.
Hugs, Karen