Four funerals, one year, countless tears.

Hi Suzy, I am so sorry that you have had to go through so many deaths in your family. I know it must be overwhelming. I have lost all of my family I grew up with so I understand the terrible sadness. I know it will take time to come to terms with all of this. Is there a grief support group that you and your mom can participate in?

Sometimes a hospital or hospice has this type of group where you can go and express your feelings and be comforted by others. Or maybe there is a counseling service where you can go a few times to help you through this difficult time. Counseling may help you to deal with your grandmother's illness. Just a few suggestions I thought might help you. You can always come here and post and there is always someone who will answer you. Try to take good care of yourself.

Aurora

Hi Suzy

I am so sorry that you have had to suffer so much grief for one so young. The only thing I can say is that those people are in a better place, out of pain and sleeping peacefully.

I want you to try and focus on life and those living around you now. It is hard to accept I know but it is a fact of life and it will happen to all of us eventually, I know you know that. You have to pick yourself up now and stop thinking about it and do something else, play some music, visit your friends or just sit and talk to your mother I am sure she would like that.

Keep posting and let us know how you are going.

Thanks for all your responses ..
I think everything's going to be okay, i think my mom is still grieving and trying to understand all thats just happened..but its definatly going to take time.
It's true they're in a better place and they've lived their lives and now its time for us to live our own. I'll keep you guys posted if anything else happens.

Thanks,
Suzy Nell.