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Posted 9/23/2010 5:03 PM (GMT 0)
A couple of years ago in december i suffered depression but overcome it myself overtime but now i think it has come back and its like loads of things have triggered it off and i dont know what to do i have sat here for the past hour just crying.
I lost a baby 4 years ago but i feel like im still grieving and have a son now who is 3 years old and married but i feel so empty and lonely and miserable.
I feel unloved i have tried talking to my husband but he does not understand.
Then everyone around me seems to be telling me there probs and news and it seems to be making me worse i seem to long for what they have for some reason
I just want to run away from everyone and not look back i just seem to hurt so much i have lost my appetite aswell i just dont know what to do cry
Posted 9/23/2010 8:43 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Gibbo1234,

I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. I think that is something that we really never get over all the way. And I hope that you have had grief counseling or something to help you along. You still might need something for closure.

But don't forget the prescious little one that you do have. Make that child your center of attention. Do what is in his best interest. That will guide you through life. Honestly when they say the grass is always greener on the other side, that is true. No matter where you are in life, other things always seem better. But the secret to your happiness lies within you.

Keep posting and let us know how you are doing. I hope that you can find happiness.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 9/23/2010 9:35 PM (GMT 0)
Hello Gibbo1234,

I'm so sorry for your loss and pain.

Please remember that not understanding does not equal not loving. A member of a group therapy I've attended found her husband to be much more supportive after she asked her doctor to speak to him. Perhaps a professional could help explain things.

Blessed be.
Posted 9/24/2010 12:36 PM (GMT 0)
my healing compassionate prayers to you. my sincere condolences. jamie.
Posted 9/24/2010 5:44 PM (GMT 0)
I've had a few miscarriages. I know It is very depressing.I just prayed for you. You can talk to me. I haven't figured out were the chat room is yet though. You know how to get there?
Posted 9/24/2010 7:41 PM (GMT 0)
If you look at the top of the page, there is sort of a blue bar that goes accross. It says chat on one of them. Just click on there.

Good luck

Hugs, Karen
Posted 9/25/2010 12:16 AM (GMT 0)
oh, yeah. I seen it. thanks
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