Hi

It is okay if it takes you ages to get over what you went through. It is so hard when we lose somebody. But she is in a good place now and she may even be watching over you smiling. I have comfort in things like this. It is hard for the ones who are left behind though.

Like we said before there are no rights and wrongs when it comes to grief. But if it becomes too hard, do seek support. You can get grief counseling and it helps a lot.

Take it easy on yourself. Remember fond memories. You will get though this in time. Each day does get a little easier as you go.

Hugs, Karen