Posted 3/9/2011 8:17 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Volonau, I think that it may just be how you are looking at the situation. Socialization can occur in different ways, at different times, for different types of people. The fact that you and you wife have very little need to socialize outside your home shows me pretty clearly that whatever need for socialization that the two of you have, you are content to some extent with what you have with each other. That is perfectly fine, and in fact quite healthy, but if you find that at times you do wish you had some other activities outside the home there are a variety of options. Firstly I would try to find something that you and you wife both truly enjoy. There is a certain amount of satisfaction a person can have in doing something their spouse enjoys, but it is that much better when it is the same for both parties. If you and your wife have a drink every now and then, and also enjoy similar music, maybe plan a night with a really nice live band at a place you are both comfortable with. Basically, I'd think that IF you did decide that you do want outside socialization, then do so, but if you both are fulfilled with what you have at the moment...so be it. If you want a mix ;) go for that too. Find fun with her, because as you have said yourself, you seem pretty happy with just her already ;). I hope this helps