Feeling very let down

I have been staying home because of health issues since July 2012. I do have volunteer activities but it can be challenging because I also have PTSD and anxiety. My psychiatrist took me off my anxiety medications at the first of this year to see how I cope. I've been trying to just push myself through but it's getting harder and harder. I have actually been canceling doctors appointments because my anxiety is just too high.
Anyway, I'm trying to cope. My husband made a plan to go to a movie today. He told me early in the week so I could mentally prepare myself. I was actually pretty excited because I've been spending 98% of my time alone. He works lot of hours and most weekends.
I got up and got all my household stuff done and looked up movie times. I expected him to sleep in since he didn't go to bed til about 6 am. Well, even after several attempts of me waking him he slept til about 20 minutes ago. Movies are over and who knows when he will be free again or if I can get my anxiety down enough again.
I'm feeling so disappointed and hurt. I feel like my wants and needs just don't matter. I do everything I can to make his life easier but he couldn't wake up for a movie? It was even a movie he wanted to see. To him I know it was just a movie but I explained to him that I needed time out of the house that wasn't with a doctor. That I felt being cooped up was making my anxiety worse. He ignored my concerns. He just left to get himself some dinner without asking if I was hungry or wanted to come along.
Am I being overly emotional? I know that it's possible because I do want to be fair. He deserves a chance to relax but I feel like I am unimportant because a promise to me was less important than him sleeping for 15 hours.

Try not to judge your husband. Know that he does work out and needs to do things for himself just like you do. If your schedules don't match up, so be it, you can try again.

Don't miss your doctors appointments, and it sounds like you need to try anti anxiety meds again, even if it is just for a little while, you need some relief.

Do something nice for yourself. We can't depend on others to make us happy. Things didn't go the way you wanted them to this time, try not to let it effect you too much and make another attempt. Try not to blame your husband when things don't work out. Do not compare him to other people. This will only make you bitter.

Take care of you. Make them doctor appointments. Help yourself...

I hope that you feel better soon. Have a great day...

Hugs, Karen...

It's hard to talk to him. He closes off when he thinks he has upset me. He knows I don't ask a lot because I know he works a lot. I try very hard to make home as comfortable for him as it can be.
I don't let him know when my anxiety or depression are starting to get to me. I normally come out of it and I hate to drop anymore worries on him than he already has. The anxiety has been getting worse and worse. I know I need to go to the doctor but from the minute my foot is out the door all I want is to get back inside.
I did text my therapist about my anxiety. She said we'd need to set me up with the psychiatrist again and see if he'd put me back in them. I'm still unclear as to why he took me off because he knows I'm still struggling with the PTSD.
I haven't been to therapy in 3 weeks because of my anxiety. I know it's counterproductive but its hard to force myself to go. I'm going to try very hard to make it this week.
Thank you all for your support and help. I'm the kind of person who hates to big others down with my issues. It's helpful to be able to vent to others who understand, it helps me clear my mind and get refocused. So again, thank you all so much.