Posted 3/4/2013 4:59 PM (GMT 0)
Confused
You can use the fact that she does not remember most of her childhood as an opener to therapy. Blocking childhood memories is a redflag to most people that there is an issue, deep down, she knows this. That is why she is bringing it up in conversation. She most likely will be angry with you for pointing out therapy will help her.
Not being strong enough to handle it on her own is a sign of failure in her eyes most likely, when deep down she knows she needs help. Yes it is confusing. We live with duality when things are suppressed. This situation is not something that goes well and "pretty" like it does in the movies.
Sorry but that is the truth. If you want to help her, you have to take the bumps.
There are no guarantees she will except the helping hand either, you can only try. Bless you for doing that.
Peace
Trina