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so i have two VERY important questions!!!

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Posted 4/19/2013 1:40 PM (GMT 0)
why do abusers not know they are abusers???

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why does an abuser act like nothing is wrong and say things like i really miss us i want to talk so we can make it better. i want to take you for dinner and then say ill meet you at "wherever" but its your favourite restaurant?
Posted 4/19/2013 2:08 PM (GMT 0)
because once they got you hooked they can control you and they keep feeding off it...don't fall for any of this and do get a new cell phone, at least consider a new cell phone...stay strong...
Posted 4/19/2013 4:07 PM (GMT 0)
In my opinion, you need to ditch this guy and meet somebody else. He knows what you like and knows how to get to you. It is like a puppet on a string. Sometimes it is just in their personalities and they manipulate people without even realizing. But believe me, if you don't ditch him, this is just the beginning of the manipulation. It isn't anything you did, it is him. Please move on with your life.

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 4/19/2013 10:48 PM (GMT 0)
Melanie,

the following information will put you in touch with people who can give the information you are asking for. The repeated dance of the abuser.

http://www.thehotline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hoteline 1-800-799-SAFE(7233)

Put the phone number in your cell phone and keep with you in case you ever need it. People at this hotline and poiint you in the right direction for ending this relationship and BLOCKING HIS NUMBER ON YOUR PHONE. THEY DO IT ALL THE TIME FOR PEOPLE.

Peace
Trina
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