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melaniemelanie30

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Joined : Mar 2013

Posts : 40

Posted 5/16/2013 3:02 AM (GMT 0)

ive come to the conclusion in order for me to get closuer from my ex abuser i need to write him a letter and also his mother and father. the letter to his parents because they were a big part of my life too and i feel i need to close that door to since it was left wide open too. is this a mistake to do

BnotAfraid

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Joined : Apr 2012

Posts : 8865

Posted 5/16/2013 10:27 AM (GMT 0)

If you wont to write the letter fine. Then Burn it! Do not mail it!

You will not get closure. You will receive more grief from the ex bf. He is counting on this stage. He will be ready for you, with gooshy tales of sweetness and love.

STAY A WAY FROM HIM. NO CONTACT. MAIL, EMAIL, TEXT, PHONE TELEGRAM ECT...
Leave the parents alone, you really do not want to close with them, they are your back door to him. Bolt it shut and throw await that key!

STAY SAFE! You are strong and your own person now. You can do this!!!
Peace
Trina

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