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Posted 7/1/2013 4:30 PM (GMT 0)
I'm not sure if I have Depression or I'm just having a rough time. Pretty sure its Depression...anyway...I feel like my life has shifted from great to horrible...for no reason. Everything keeps moving around me but I'm consumed by my thoughts. I can't remember the last time I felt good physically or emotionally. I feel like my moods are all over the place. I know you all aren't drs but I thought Is ask.
Posted 7/1/2013 4:55 PM (GMT 0)
I gave you a link on your other thread. I hope that it helps Labelleliason...

Hugs, Karen
Posted 7/1/2013 5:30 PM (GMT 0)
I agree with Karen, you need to calm down a little, breathe, 1 2 3 and
check that web sit out. It will help you with what you are going through.

take the time to go through it.

Peace
Trina
Posted 7/1/2013 5:46 PM (GMT 0)
Im trying to calm down...its just this weekend my bf said he couldnt/doesnt want to help me financially anymore. I think he thinks I dont care about him or us and I DO! No matter what I do I cant communicate with him on a normal calm level and I keep blaming myself for feeling this way and being this way. I remember when things were so good bw us and they just havent been for so long (at least for me bc of this Depression). Its breaking my heart a little more each day bc I care about him and us so much but when hes around I become this ugly person.
Posted 7/1/2013 6:08 PM (GMT 0)
I am sorry your boyfriend feels that way. Do you work? Can you support yourself? Usually both people put their money together, but if you are going to do it separate, make sure you make enough to support yourself. Things are going to work out. Try to relax, breathe...

People often say things that they don't really mean, give it a little time.

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 7/1/2013 6:19 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks. I'm also sad bc we always talk about marriage but he keeps saying we will do it when he finishes school or when I do. I don't know....Lately though he's been telling our mutual friends that my parents are pressuring him. It was supposed to be smg he wants to do. He made a comment also about how he doeant think marriage will fix everything. I have NO idea where that's coming from. Fix what??
Posted 7/1/2013 7:07 PM (GMT 0)
It sounds like you need to get the lines of communication going again. Ask him if he thinks that there is a problem with the relationship or what??? Tell him you want to talk about what he is thinking. It is hard to communicate sometimes, try to keep an open mind and same for him. I hope that things work out for both of you.

Hugs, Karen...
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