Posted 7/19/2013 8:07 PM (GMT 0)
Amid all the other stress I'm handling right now (marital issues, being sick, court stuff, and arranging surgeries around when others can help with the kids) my sister decided to stoke the fire. My grandmother offered to keep my daughter last night so I could go to the dr today. My grandmother said she had a lunch date but would take my daughter to my sisters' and then bring her back to me after her lunch date.
While I'm at the imaging center (dr ordered some more films and a MRI to get better views of my sinuses) my sister texted 3 times. I didn't answer because you can't have your phone out in those areas. When I got done my ex husband called to see if he could take the kids to a movie (its his weekend) so I told him where the kids were, my son had stayed the night with his other grandparents. He picked them up and took them to a movie.
My sister's texts says that my daughter doesn't want to go with her dad, which she never does but I have to make her go. It's against the law for me to keep her from her dad. Then my sister says that's its pitiful that I shrug my kids off on anyone and everyone. She got nastier and nastier. I told her several times to stop texting me. Then I lost my temper and went off on her about all of her own problems. I know I shouldn't have but I guess my temper is right under the skin right now. I don't feel bad because I may of hurt her feelings. I only hate that I sank to her level. I hate losing my temper but she seems to be trying to get me to that point every time she does this. I ended the conversation by telling her that if she kept texting me I would press charges for harassment. I hate all this drama. I wish they knew when they were cut out that I don't care to talk to them.