I need help to get back with my girlfriend

My girlfriend and I met and started talking for about a month or more then got together. We moved in together about a month after. During this time, I found out she was still talking to an ex telling him she still wanted him in her life etc..I left for 4 days to my hometown to fix some problems and came back to her seeing him the days i was gone. We continued to try with our relationship but all we did was argue. We had alot of obstacles even after and we ended selling everything and she left back east and i live out west. She says she still loves me but needs to get on her meds for bipolar and needs to work on herself. I ve suggested breaking up but she says she doenst want and that we ll be together again but i dont know what to do. Some help please im hurting.

This may or maynot happen.

You need to worry about yourself at this point and move on. IF she feels the relationship is right when she is stable, she will contact you. Bipolar is an whole nother world to live in.

Peace
Trina

Hello .......

   It sounds, by your thread, that the two of you were a couple for maybe 3-months or a little more! And moved in together after a month or more!

   There seem to be a lot of problems and arguments for such a short term relationship! For most ... this would be a bad sign ... for a future together!

   Now ..... when you were gone for 4-days, she saw her X! Now that she's gone with perhaps 2000-miles separating you both, what do you think is going to happen? And why did she move? Could she not get help for herself on the West coast?

   Using the term "if it was meant to be" ..... just puts you on hold - and a one-way hold at that! And you could be on hold for years. I was in a 7-year on/off relationship. And finally, I got tired of her cheating ... and either ignoring our times off together or wondering all the time!@!! It ain't no fun - either one!

   You have some decisions to make for yourself and that is "meant to be"!

Good luck - chose wisely!

Rob & Gizmo