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Posted 6/15/2014 8:55 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Guys I usually post on the Rheumatoid page but I posted here a little while ago and you were all so great and depression is I guess your area !
I picked myself up after the 2 week slump and I mean Slump I was as bad as ive ever gotten
and I started to try to see a future and even had a few days where I didn't cry over any tiny thing
then today Life happened
we are currently in a stressful situation and I'm dealing with it but today
we need to get a car as ours is dying so we saw a cheap one on line and I rang the guy asked him all about it he told me yes good good
so wee drive over and buy it then get home and he had totally misrepresented it its a Lemon and we have lost our money - and now still have no car
I feel numb
tears keep welling
it is like everyway I turn I get hit in the face
im trying to keep calm and hubby says don't worry about it but I keep spinning
Posted 6/15/2014 10:38 AM (GMT 0)
Hubby is right, try not to worry. I have had a lemon before it is no fun.... Maybe you can sell it. Though I am sure you probably don't feel right about selling it to an unsuspecting person. Like happened to you. We had to make due with ours for a few years. Until we could get another.

I know it feels like the bottom dropped out, but I am sure in time when you look at it, you wont feel as bad. Though I am very sorry you got stuck with a bad car.

I would make the best of the situation and try to keep moving on.

Oh and my lemon got sold back to the car dealer. Traded in on another car. Sad part was that when someone bought it, it died the next day. But the car dealer had to take the loss. Which was good because they sold it to us...

I hope that this helps a little. Maybe better business bureau, depending where you bought it.

Hugs, Karen....
Posted 6/15/2014 1:07 PM (GMT 0)
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

feel better soon. am sorry. not fare.
Posted 6/15/2014 3:53 PM (GMT 0)
Hang in there, water under the bridge now. Hard lesson learned. We have all been there once or twice. I lost 6k that way once. Och!

Unless you want to try small claims court. although you need something in writing from him saying it was a good car.

I believe if you live right and well, eventually good will come back to you ten fold. It has happened to me a few times in life, after some extremely bad times.

So hang there, have faith, be strong with your husband, take one day at a time. Don't worry about the future, it will take care of itself.

Peace and comfort
Trina
Posted 6/15/2014 9:37 PM (GMT 0)
Oh, so sorry about that lemon car, that's rotten of the seller but happens a lot unfortunately. A friend of my daughter's bought one off Craigslist and same thing happened.

It only happened today so you're going to be very upset but it will be okay, maybe you can sell some of the parts, radio and CD etc to get something back.

So sorry that happened, it sucks big time, some days it just feels like "Can i get a break?!" I am a big believer in karma, you will be okay.

Big hugs...
Posted 6/16/2014 9:39 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks guys it helped to put it into perspective it dose happen to a lot of people and I guess we just file it under "don't do it again" it was brought of a web site and I have No come back hubby says he will either sell it in bits or to the local wrecker
I think the hard part is I used to be so Cool I was Super woman always handling everyone else's problems and now I crumble at the slightest thing.
I've been in a RA Flare for last few weeks so my Pain tolerance is non existent very tired
Posted 6/16/2014 10:51 AM (GMT 0)
Hope your RA pain goes away.

Hugs, Karen...
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