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Posted 6/20/2014 9:13 AM (GMT 0)
Hi .. I'm really feeling very helpless and depressed and just found this site.. Just broke up with my husband. I'm 28yrs old with a 2yr old daughter,independent. We have been married for 6 yrs ..everything was good and we we a happy couple. Small differences and misunderstandings lead to big fights and now came to the stage of breakup. I really love him. I don't know what to do. I just can't function. I just can't be normal without him. Please help me
Posted 6/20/2014 10:21 AM (GMT 0)
You will have a new normal now, you just have to get use to it. One day at a time .

I hope that things get better. I am sorry about your breakup. Keep your daughter top priority now.

Welcome to the forum hon...

Hugs, Karen....
Posted 6/20/2014 1:25 PM (GMT 0)
Sorry to hear ......

   Only if it makes sense ....... you might want to try a couples counselor. When two are fighting, it's unlikely either is thinking very clearly. If there is a chance to save the marriage, try the couples counseling.

   If not, try a counselor for yourself.

Peace and wellness

Rob & Gizmo

 

Posted 6/20/2014 3:44 PM (GMT 0)
I remember how bad I felt when I broke up with my first BF. I'd pinned all my hopes and dreams on him, so it was horrible to break up, but.. I knew I had to.

If you can get counseling, DO! I had to suffer through it myself (no money or insurance) and back then, NO internet either! At least we have the internet now to share things with and read about others.

You WILL eventually discover yourself again. Hugs...
Posted 6/20/2014 3:45 PM (GMT 0)
anj,

welcome to the forum.

Communication is key in any relationship. Sounds like there might have been a breakdown along the way somewhere. Couples therapy may be a help if you both agree on it.

If not and the break is final, than that is something that you will have to learn to accept and move on with. Change is hard for everyone, you can take time to mourn the loss of the marriage. However, don't waste to much time on it. You have a lot of life to give and a daughter to attend to.

Peace and stength
Trina
Posted 6/20/2014 5:17 PM (GMT 0)
Hello everyone ..thanks for your valuable time and reply. I just received a call from my husband saying he terribly misses me ....I somehow feel a lot better now and yes as u all advised we do need some counseling but definitely there is a smthing strong btwn us that still keeps us together despite of the problems. Thank u all again and god bless .. :)
Posted 6/20/2014 5:33 PM (GMT 0)
I am happy for you Anjali22. Don't forget about the counseling. It really does help...

Happy Relationship!!!

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 6/20/2014 7:12 PM (GMT 0)
I am happy for you, remember relationship takes hard work on both sides to respect each other and listen to each other.

Good luck!
Peace
Trina
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