Seeking advice for tough time in relationship

I am sorry, but this is a depression forum. Not a forum for relationships. I don't think it would be easy for us to help you with this situation. Being it is an arranged marriage, many of us aren't familiar with these situations. I don't know where to send you for help. Most of us on this forum are use to relationships by love that two people arrange who are in that said relationship. Not something arranged by somebody else. I think it would be difficult for most of us to give you advice...

Is she depressed? This is a depression forum. Perhaps we could give you some tips from our personal experience on how to help someone in a relationship when they're depressed.

I am sorry to hear that.

I don't know what it was you said to her that made her feel the way she does, but you can get past it. What do you mean by you have 'scolded' her behaviors? I think that's the first thing you have to get past - apologize to her if you think you did something wrong and assure her you've learned from it and will try to change.

If I were you, I would write her a letter. It is a lot easier to get all your thoughts out on paper than to remember what you want to say to her when you see her in person or talk with her on the phone. Tell her how you are feeling, that you are sorry about how she feels and you want to make things work between the two of you. I know this is a risk and it will probably seem a little scary.

You have a choice and the ability to make this a happy relationship. Don't give up. Write the letter, save it for a couple days, then go back and look at it again, and edit if you need to. Tell her truly how you feel. I think she will respond positively.

I want to say I think you are very brave for coming here and seeking advice. I wish you the very, very best and will be happy to help you as you try to figure this out.

I hope that it all works out. I was wrong, obviously there are members who can give you advice.

I wonder about the scolding too. And what behaviors?

Hugs, Karen...

Do they have therapist in India, or a doctor of some sort that you can talk too. Perhaps pre-marriage counseling would be a good thing. I hope you work things out, but if you can try to find a professional to talk to they can give you ways to work this out.