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Posted 4/28/2015 2:52 PM (GMT 0)
Just a little whine, in case anyone has some cheese.

Three weeks ago at support group the facilitator challenged me saying, what I shared could not be true, regarding my brother wieldeling a copy of my cell phone account.

Last week, I shared and no one responded, I was facilitating, just about to close meeting, when a sweet man, decided to give feed back in general blahblahblah, out of embarasment I am sure.

Last night, I did not share, but gave feed back. While resetting the room, there were 3 of us left, the guy who facilitated starts mocking me. "Nice feed back" I said are you mocking me? because of his tone, "oh no" has he smirks. What the hell.

My paranoia gut says this is coming from the one facilitator that attended my survivor group, did not like what I shared, resulted in my suspending the group. She has been an ice berg to me since.

I don't think she kept my confidence, so folks are seeing me as a @#$%^&******.

Should I tough this out, or bow out of the group?

Wishing I had Peace
Trina
Posted 4/28/2015 3:44 PM (GMT 0)
That is totally up to you. You know that this group is a good deal... You know you like to go. But if you didn't, it would not be a failure, it would be a choice. So I would follow what feels comfortable. I am sorry for what happened. I think depressed people don't often think about how they make other's feel.

Is this the group you started? Or one that you attend? If it is your group, you can always invite the person to leave...

Just my opinion...

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 4/28/2015 4:52 PM (GMT 0)
Trina, I'm sorry about what happened... I would of felt uncomfortable if I were in the group. If you continue to go, I hope things improve.

Myself, what indian vegetarian dish did you make for dinner? I'm excited since I'm indian in descent...

Hello Karen, Michele, Jamie, pitmom, Joyce, AV, and everyone else. Hope everyone is okay...

My bf and I are having some problems, but we're trying to work on it.
Mum is back home from vacation. She landed and just text me that she is on her way home. I feel as if my vacation is over too.
I have been busy at work the last couple of weeks. I'm working on some new designs for posters.

UA
Posted 4/28/2015 4:58 PM (GMT 0)
Hi UA....

I am glad you enjoyed the house to yourself. Maybe a place of your own is something to think about. If you feel that way and are ready. I am glad you had your very own vacation too...

I hope you and bf work things out. True love never runs smooth they say. Ha!!! Tell us about it, right???

Take care and thanks for posting...

Hugs to all!!!

Karen...
Posted 4/29/2015 8:08 AM (GMT 0)
HI ALL. trina, follow your gut on this. hey UA keep strong. many healing thoughts to you all. hey karen, hope you are well. see ya soon joyce.
Posted 4/29/2015 9:54 AM (GMT 0)
Wednesday Smiler 4/29
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Did you know
Alma mater means bountiful mother
….and, Happy 61st birthday to Jerry Seinfeld

Have you ever wondered
What disease did cured ham actually have?

Just a groaner
A cat ate some cheese and waited for a mouse with baited breath.
Posted 4/29/2015 10:18 AM (GMT 0)
Good morning all!!!

Thanks for the smiles... Love them...

Breaking daylight here today, hoping for another nice day again. But we surely need some rain...

Wanting mushrooms...

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 4/29/2015 10:25 AM (GMT 0)
cheese joyce. morning my friends. reminds me off my poem mystical mushroom men. just rereading it. have a nice day. UA put them together in a nice format with collections and content. that was so nice.
Posted 4/29/2015 11:14 AM (GMT 0)
g'mornin' gang...

Lovely sunny day for us. Just fed the birds, they were waiting!
Saw dental yesterday. Scheduled for extraction and implant on the 5th.

Today is my husband's 84th birthday...usually make him a Lemon Meringue pie instead of a cake...but he's watching his sugar intake 'cause of diabetes...so don't have cook today. (whew, not my favorite job anyway...making meringue is a challenge.)

Another doctor appointment this afternoon...injection in the eyeball...always somethin' to do.

See ya later
~Joyce
Posted 4/29/2015 12:14 PM (GMT 0)
Injection in the eyeball, okay... Hope it goes smoothly for you Joyce... Happy birthday to hubby!!! I understand about the diabetes. Fruit is my sweets, and I have to watch that too.

Sunny here too. Hope to go out and walk as soon as the sun warms it up. Hubby is out looking for fishing spots for us. He took the fishing pole, so I don't expect him back any time soon. I am sure the fish will be calling him. Ha!!!

Good morning Jamie, Joyce, UA, Trina, Pitmom, everybody!!! Got to be in a good mood when the sun is shining. Ha!!! Love you all!!!

Karen....
Posted 4/29/2015 12:42 PM (GMT 0)
love ya all too. all the best joyce.
Posted 4/29/2015 3:17 PM (GMT 0)
Indian Veggie dinner.

Cook onion. Add ginger.
Add a whole head of cauliflower, cut up. Add spices (I use a variety, but always turmeric, coriander, garam masala, cayenne, black mustard seed.... etc.)

Add a can of diced tomatoes, and broth or water, if you need to or if you want dish to be saucier.

Cook 15 minutes on medium-low, covered. Add bag of cooking greens (I use chard/kale mixture.) Cover pan again, after 5 minutes stir wilted greens into mixture. Cook 15 more minutes.

Check for seasoning and stir.

For those that can, add a can of chick peas. with the greens.

Use cilantro at end, if you like.

For less spice/heat, use a sweet curry powder. For a good short cut, use garam masala alone. I love garam masala, and have a really spicey version from an ethnic grocery store.

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Posted 4/29/2015 8:53 PM (GMT 0)
I had an awesome day. My ex has been wanting a kitty. I got him a kitty. I may steal her because she's adorable. Her old owner became allergic so couldn't keep her. They couldn't brush her so she has terrible matted fur. We are going to have to shave the baby because it's matted to the skin.
Posted 4/30/2015 8:56 AM (GMT 0)
morning all.
Posted 4/30/2015 9:32 AM (GMT 0)
Thursday Smiler 4/30
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Did you know
The roar that we hear when we place a seashell next to our ear is not the ocean,
but rather the sound of blood surging through the veins in the ear.


Fun Sign
In a Podiatrist's office:
"Time wounds all heels."

Just a groaner
Have you got bills to pay? If you do, please give it back. He looks silly bald.
….......(got it??? bills to pay... Bill's toupee.......groan!)
Posted 4/30/2015 9:38 AM (GMT 0)
excellent. how was the mans birthday? did the knife hit the bottom? if it does he has to kiss the nearest lady.

here kitty. :-) i have a cat that roams my front and backyard.
Posted 4/30/2015 10:08 AM (GMT 0)
Good morning all!!!

Thank you Joyce, especially for the hint on the last one. I probably wouldn't have gotten it for a long time. Ha!!!

Here Kitty... Hey Jamie... HOpe you had a good day today.

take care all...

Hugs, Karen...
Posted 4/30/2015 11:01 AM (GMT 0)
Mornin' Jamie and Karen..

Birthday was fine. Store bought pie was tasty (and easy). Knife hit the bottom??? does that mean that it's all eaten???. If so, nope. Half is in the freezer. (The only way to keep safe for another day.) I got my share of kisses, anyway.

Yes, Karen...about the groaner. It took ME so long to figure it out, I thought a hint might help...

Eye doctor eyeball injection over with. Five more weeks 'till the next 'jab'. Counting the days..

Renting a 'bobcat' today for husband and son to spread stone at shop parking area and driveway. Glad it's sunny

See y'all ~ Joyce
Posted 4/30/2015 12:29 PM (GMT 0)
Was sunny here but since clouded up. Maybe we will get some much needed rain today!!! Still thinking about mushrooming but need rain!!!

Hugs to all!!!

Karen....
Posted 4/30/2015 1:54 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks for sharing it Myself. I may try it sometime. I hope it comes out good.
Yesterday our boss sponsored us lunch at his restaurant. It was different but nice. He owns a restaurant that makes certain Indian dishes. I had aloo naan, tikka chicken, butter chicken and something else that I'm not sure of the name.

Hope the injection didn't hurt Joyce. It sounds painful...

AV, Karen, Trina, Jamie, Jess, everyone else-hello.

This morning when I got in the office I started hearing a noise while doing my work. It was a big frog, in the office. Ewwwww. I was alone with it for about 15 mins. Then a few of the other girls came. We just stood there and guard it, to make sure we knew where it went, since we were all scared of it. about 2 hours later, one of the guys finally came and took care of it for us. What a morning!

Wishing everyone a great day!

UA
Posted 4/30/2015 4:34 PM (GMT 0)
Hello all. So good to see everyone's posts.

Rather cloudy today and a bit chilly. It's okay though, I sorta needed a 'forced break' from all of the outdoor work I've been doing. So much needs to be done in the springtime.

Not much longer now and I should be able to stop taking the vitamin D supplement for a few months. I use it in the months when I'm not getting out in the sun.

Soon, the 'work' will be finished outside and I'll be able to sit and relax and enjoy the fruits of my labor. The only chores will be watering and cutting the grass, at least until harvest time. Only things left to plant are the tomatoes and cucumbers.
Posted 5/1/2015 10:08 AM (GMT 0)
Friday Smiler 5/01
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Did you know
Nine out of every 10 living things live in the ocean
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What every woman wants to hear
Why don't you relax this weekend. I'll take care of the cooking and housework.

Just a groaner
During Victorian times, clocks were so expensive that
people hired someone for a penny a month to wake
them up by tapping on their window with a long pole.
He was known as a 'knocker-upper'
....this might be a 'groaner'...but it's also TRUE!
Posted 5/1/2015 10:35 AM (GMT 0)
morning joyce and everyone. birthday cake when you cut the first slice, if the knife touches the bottom then you kiss the nearest lady. ah, just traditional crap.
Posted 5/1/2015 10:49 AM (GMT 0)
Morning all!!!

Joyce, thank you again for the smiles... Knocker upper, well, I do guess that is better than "knocked up". Ha!!!

Jamie, glad to hear you got sleep.

Pitmom, Good morning!!

UA Thanks for posting. Hope all is well with you...

Hugs to all!!! Trying to wake up this morning. Slept in...

Karen...
Posted 5/2/2015 12:45 AM (GMT 0)
Jamie, first time I am hearing that one. Interesting and nice. I'm going to tell my friend/co-workers that one on Monday. Thanks.

Hi Karen, Joyce, Pitmom, everyone...

Have a good night!

UA
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