It is sad to say,but your Son is an Adult and will eat however he chooses.There is nothing you or his Doctor can do to change the decisions he makes for himself.All you can is hope that he wakes up and realizes what he is doing to his Body.I was 22 when Diagnosed with Reactive Hypoglycemia.I'm now 35 and only in the past couple of Years have woken to realize I want to be Healthy and to have longevity,so am making necessary steps for Optimum Health.I am not a Parent,so I can't imagine how worried you are about your Son.I wish he would understand the importance of eating a Healthy Diet with added Exercise.
I wish both you and your Son the best..