Hi again Marj,
I also agree with Gracie's Mom.
If you're not totally satisfied with the info (or lack of....) you DO have the right, by law (as per the freedom of information act and/or the privacy legislation) to have access to his medical records (if he's under 18)
I have first hand experience.
Too many parents are too afraid to speak up and leave everything totally in the hands of the Doctor.
My younger sister was diagnosed with epilepsy at age 13 (during her first period) and since my mother left everything up to the Doctor without asking any questions (she didn't want him to think she was stupid) she was sent to so many "so called Neurolical specialists" that over the years, she has been so over medicated that she now has brain damage and is retarted. She's now 43 y.o.
Her brain has never advanced past age 13. that when somebody is talking to her, you have to go slow and talk like a 13 year old or she can't understand you.
And if she talks to you (which is very rare) she won't look at you, she'll look through you.
I didn't have my first seizure 'til I was 21. Thank goodness I had moved out by then or this could have happened to me, instead I saw the proper Doctor and got on the right meds and have a normal life. (retired after 34 years of employment, house, family etc)
but my sister didn't have a chance at a "normal" life b/c my mother wouldn't ask questions or request to see any reports ~ it doesn't have to be that way.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK TO SEE MEDICAL RECORDS if that mah\kes you feel better. IT'S YOUR RIGHT.
Randy