I'm so glad you didn't get an appt to see a 'dr' like that. If they don't believe and on board to help - You don't want them, either! I would suggest you still try to get a rheumy that does believe and treat FMS. Could you call your local hosp or even your ins co. to see if there is someone you could see. Are there any Arthritis Support groups in your area, maybe listing of meetings in local newspaper. You may even want to call individual rheumy offices listed in phone book. Ask if they treat & believe in FMS and if they take your ins. My former PCP dx me and sent me to rheumy for confirmation, then my PCP was the one to treat. She wasn't as helpful as I would have liked (a story in itself) but I have a new PCP who does believe and has started treating other serious conditions that my former PCP didn't bother herself about.
I had cysts on my ovary and had an hysterectomy, I thought that was my problem, also. I'm am in more pain than I was b/f the surgery and that's saying a lot.
You might ask here if anyone is in your area and know/see a good rheumy. I wish you good luck.
God bless. Alice.