sarabear,
First of all, forgive me for not welcoming you to the family sooner. For some reason I'm really bad at replying to all of the newbie posts. I hope you'll forgive me. Anyway, welcome to the family!
Like you, I also get numbness in my hands, and they hurt a lot. This also happens with my feet, too. Your symptoms sound very fibro-ish, but since I'm not a doctor, I really can't say.
If you live in Upstate SC, I can give you a ride to the doctor. Just let me know when your appointment is.
Good Luck with finding some answers!
Casey-AKA Kelly71