Hi Corky and welcome. We are only a group of people with fibro and can not dx anyone but I know from my own experience fibro can present itself in strange ways. I had anxiety and fatigue for the first few years with very little pain and it took an all out flare for it all to click for my doc. Now about 7 yrs after being dxd I have pain from the top of my head to the bottom of my feet.
Have you read the fibro 101 thread at the top of the first page??? It does sound like your doc was ruling out all the other things it could be listed in the fibro 101 thread which is the first step in getting a fibro dx. Perhaps it would help if you took all the test you have had to another doc and explain your symptoms to him/her. You can also print out a list of the symptoms listed in the fibro 101 thread and see how many apply to you. Some keep a pain journal to take to their docs. The tender point test is not always reliable.
We have several members still trying to get a dx so you are welcome whether you have a dx or not.
luv and hugs
Marlee