Wow Pat you took on a lot considering all your problems. If I spend a couple of hours with my almost year old great grandson I'm in a world of pain for a few days so maybe I've been doing it all wrong and should spend more time with him. My dogs weigh about 12 lbs each and I got use to picking them up and holding them as they grew so I don't even notice their weight. So if I carry both of them around they equal about what great grandson does and it may help me with holding him, .
Does the kenalog shots help you??? I get them for arthritis about twice a year but can't say they do anything.
We do have to keep living as normal as possible or we will loose what we do have. I found that out the hard way too.
luv and hugs
Marlee