Hello gentlebreeze:
I won my disability on Sept 2009 after 3 years of fighting. I had to see a doctor that SSDI wanted me to see to get his evaluation of my disabilites. I also had to go to a Phys. doctor that SSDI picked and do a paper test on my memory and things of that nature.
It was a very long road, but worth it to be able to recieve the help you need. I live in North Carolina and this is how the disability works, but every state is different. I wish you the best of luck!
Carrie/fibrodepressionmom