Welcome Anna
Many of us struggled for a long time before we got a dx and longer to find a doc who was knwoledgable and caring. Hang in there.
I would start by trying to find a Rheumatologist. You may need a referral, depending on your insurance. And call the office before going to make sure the rheumy treats fibro. Are you on any meds? many of us have to see a Pain Managemnt Doc also to get pain meds and muscle relaxers.
It seems overwhelming right now, I know but slowly things will come together, but you must be your own advocate in your medical care. Checking out all the Forum's fibro material will help you do this.
I am sorry that your doc is so clueless, some still believe that fibro is an imaginary disease...so kick that jerk to the curb.
This is a great place to vent and get support, so keep posting. Read the links, even print out all your symptoms and questions for the next doctor.
I hope you find a sympathetic medical professional very soon
Let us know
Maggie