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Posted 10/27/2013 3:31 PM (GMT 0)
It can be difficult when we are hit with a number of health challenges but I think we truly grow from our experiences. I think we learn a lot about ourselves when we are challenged. Over the years, I've learned more patience and have found that peace comes from within. I've been working on not letting others manage my emotions. I learned that you can be in pain and not suffer. I believe that there is good in even something bad.

How have you grown since the onset of health challenges? Wishing everyone a great new week!

Hugs, Robin :-)
Posted 10/27/2013 3:39 PM (GMT 0)
I set my priorities a little stronger as time goes by.

My work is a top priority and requires me to be reasonably healthy of mind and body to do it, which is understating it...

So I have to lop off things that are going to hinder mind and body health that may damage my ability to work.

And each time Flu-like symptoms arise I put on the brakes...
Posted 10/27/2013 4:29 PM (GMT 0)
I feel as if I have grown. I have learned to slow down and that I am stronger that I thought I was. I never have a day without some kind of pain and that is my new "normal". It took a while to adjust but I am finally there. I have always been independent and have also learned to ask for help if needed.
Posted 10/28/2013 1:57 AM (GMT 0)
I've had to force myself to take responsibly for my health realizing that no one else is going to do it, and that not even a doctor can do it necessary. I'm my own doctor first.

I don't let people bully-pressure me into doing things I don't want to do as much and have learned to say "no" more, although its still challenging for me.

I've learned to really take advantage of happy moments when they come. Sucking the most out of each moment within this imperfect reality. For example, lets say I have a day with minimal pain and no headache, and I'm with friends laughing and having a good time. I treasure those moments! Some people rush through life moment to moment not realizing what they have, but I feel grateful for the small stuff.

Today I saw a movie with my sister. We had a great time. All things are not perfect in my life, but I took advantage of the moment and enjoyed it.
Posted 10/28/2013 2:57 AM (GMT 0)
I've learned to speak up for myself instead of going along with the crowd.
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