Hi and welcome, RavenH! It certainly sounds like you could have fibro, or maybe something very similar. Of course, none of us here are doctors, so we can't diagnose.
I can only speak for myself, but I don't seem to have the tender points, either. My symtoms sound very similar to yours, though I'm not dealing with depression or vision problems. Otherwise, check, check, check! It all sounds very familiar to those of us who have been on the forum for a while.
Some here have visited board-certified rheumatologists to better take a look at the symptoms. Some, including myself, have been to neurologists, and I would think both types of doctors would do further testing. I had several tests at my neurologist, and felt relief at crossing off other conditions. It's just plain nice to know what's going on! Have you seen either of those? Is any more testing being set up for you?
Probably the best thing to do is to explore your symptoms a little further with either or both of these type of doctors. In the meantime, read the posts here, look up things in the search box (above), and there's that great thread--the very first one listed on this forum--Fibro l0l, which is really helpful.
And continue to ask questions! We know what you're going through and it's never an easy journey.
Best wishes! 