Hi Stacey: Welcome back! :) So sorry you're dealing with so much right now.
I get odd symptoms at times that make me wonder if it's fibro or something else. Mostly, this is because I was told by my neurologist that there's "something else going on also" besides the fibro, but he couldn't make an exact diagnosis. His best guess was possibly mild CP because of my "sloppy" reflexes. This really surprised me, but it also explained why I'm sometimes uncoordinated and always have been. However, I never realized that I had poor reflexes, so it was quite a surprise.
Do you feel this neurologist is doing all he/she can to find out what's going on? Would it be worth it to try another neurologist? Sometimes it helps to switch doctors, though it can be a pain and also another expense. It sounds like you've seen lots of doctors and you're probably tired of seeing them. Been there; done that!
Also, is there a fibro support group near you? I always hoped there would be one in my area, but I'd have to drive a good distance. This forum sure helps, though.
Whenever I feel overwhelmed by problems/health issues, I stop and decide on only one thing at a time and work on that. This has helped me prioritize, while also helping me to move slowly ahead. We can't fix everything all at once, but taking one issue and working on it will get us there eventually.
I hope and pray you get answers soon. Remember we're here for you!