I'm so sorry it wasn't better news Chuzzle. It's stories like yours that make fibro, financial problems and the stress of the holidays seem so trivial.
I got some bad news last night also on my 56 yr old cousin that is fighting for her life.
And here I was stressing over whether my house would be clean enough for the holiday. Makes me feel very petty and small.
Prayers will continue for you and your family Chuzzle.
luv and hugs
Marlee