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Posted 8/13/2011 9:50 AM (GMT 0)
I am so tired of some people today. A friend of mine does not understand why I am in pain and why I can't work and why I snap at him. At least I don't have to talk to him a lot. I try explaining it to him but he just doesn't get it. I finally gave up. He is.... OH!.......gurrrr I called him once in July to help me get one of my cats to the vet for fixing and shots because I wasn't able to carry him on the bus. That was not code for 'do you want to get some'... nono

Why can't people just get it the first couple of times you explain things to them? What is up with that!!!!??! I am so pissed right now and he wants to and I am just Not up for that and I have even told him that too. Then he talks about giving me OH MY GOD! is true but I don't want to feel like I have even told him I don't know what else to do or what to tell him? I am at my wits end. Maybe I should just loose his number and not pick up the phone when he calls.?...

I have not been sleeping well the last few days and lack of sleep and it being a little hotter than usual here is making me very hostile.

At least I am in counseling at the moment and I have a new doctor. He is so nice and did everything I asked and refilled the most pressing medications I needed at the time. I am tired now and I think I will try and go lay down for a while. Thanks for reading this and if you would like to comment please feel free to do so.

HARA shakehead

Post Edited By Moderator (Sherrine) : 8/13/2011 11:52:12 AM (GMT-6)
Posted 8/13/2011 11:19 AM (GMT 0)
Oh, I don't blame you for being angry! Some friend he is!

I think you are right, it might be time to lose his number. Some people are not worth attempting to keep as friends and are just toxic to have around.
Posted 8/13/2011 5:57 PM (GMT 0)
Hi, Hara.  Well, this person isn't a friend.  Actually he's acting like the animals in the woods.  I would shred his phone number.  I wouldn't answer the door, either.  If he persists, let him know you want this to stop and, if it doesn't, you will consider it harrassment and will call the police.  That should stop it.  There is no way I'd put up with that type of behavior.  You don't deserve it and you are too good of a person to be put in this situatiion to begin with.  The problem lies with him and I sure wouldn't have anyone in my life like that!

 

I did edit your post because we are a family friendly site.  I know your anger and frustration had you writing this stuff but I think members can get the gist of what your problem is. 

 

Please take care of yourself.  Don't let anyone treat you this way.  It's not healthy, as you are finding out!  Just more pain and who needs that!  Hope you are settled down some and feeling better.

 

Sherrine

Posted 8/13/2011 9:58 PM (GMT 0)
It's ok Sherrine, I am just mad that he would do something like that. Sorry.

HARA
Posted 8/13/2011 10:04 PM (GMT 0)
I totally understand, Hara!  I would do what I suggested.  He doesn't sound like a very nice person and, yes, I'd be livid, too!  At least you got some of it off your chest so hopefully you are feeling a little better now.  I'm glad you stood your ground!

 

Sherrine

Posted 8/14/2011 5:28 AM (GMT 0)
I have known this guy for about 16 years but I never thought?...... It really shows how much you really know someone.

HARA
Posted 8/14/2011 5:15 PM (GMT 0)
I'm so sorry, Hara.  That hurts, doesn't it.  But now you know and you can move forward with your life without him.  You are better off all the way around.

 

Sherrine

Posted 8/14/2011 5:21 PM (GMT 0)
He sounds like an incredibly selfish person.
Posted 8/15/2011 4:25 AM (GMT 0)
I'm not sure. He has worked since he got out of high school and now he's out of work because of the economy and lack of work. So I don't know what is going on.?....
Posted 8/15/2011 5:33 PM (GMT 0)
Unemployment doesn't make a person act like that.  Plus, he offered you money so he certainly isn't broke, either.  Think about that, Hara!  This guy has a BIG problem.  Do  you want to continue dealing with it?  This whole thread started because you were so upset with him....and I sure don't blame you. 

 

Sherrine

Posted 8/16/2011 11:18 PM (GMT 0)
Okay I am done.
Posted 8/17/2011 11:52 AM (GMT 0)
What a huge ..... <----------- fill in the blank with whatever swear word you find most fitting (keeping it family friendly :D)
One thing is for sure: Thats NOT a friend worth having! I'lld ignore his calls and don't meet up with him, he sounds like the kind of person thats hard to get rid of when they latch on :s It's a shame, but at least now you know what he is REALLY like.

Fiona
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