Hello, Catanne. I'm moving your first thread here so it will be more noticed:
I was physically abused by an alcoholic father until I moved out at age 18. Then mentally, emotionally & physically abused by my first husband. I divorced & went to college to be a nurse. I worked the majority of my time on a high stress cardiac floor, then ER. I started to get some symptoms after about 12 years of nursing. Then I had a hysterectomy 7 years ago. I got no relief from the surgical pain and went into full blown fibro. I changed jobs and went into rehab nursing, but the symptoms kept getting worse. Nursing is stressful no matter where you work. Currently I haven't worked for 7 months, hoping to find a way to feel better & get back to work. No luck. Thankfully I am married and have a husband who works. I've had stress all my life but think the surgery tipped the bucket!