Well first I want to wish all a Happy New Years Eve. Hope all is going smoothly for you all.
This Thursday, the Nursing Home where my husband is staying (hereafter the B&B) accidently gave my husband someone else's Ritalin dose, instead of his morphine pill. I am so so angry at them. Dr. was called, report made, they called me and I immediately went to B & B, and hubby was so so messed up....speeding...wired...running up and down the halls...couldn't sit still. I spent the whole night up with him so keep explaining to him what had happened and why he was messed up.
They explained how it happened and Director of Nursing came down to talk to me and actually said to me, "We are human, we make mistakes, that's how we learn. " *** I am still mad. The med aid that did it, apologized but I need to file a formal complaint and the NH director wants to talk it over with me, but I am so so angry that I am waiting until next week to talk to them.
Hubby is now home with me and trying to sleep off Ritalin effects (and of course was without his morphine for a while as they couldn't give it to him on top of the Ritalin.)
I would like some input as how to handle this. So far I have 1. talked to med aid who did it and she was apologetic and real upset when I did talk to her 2. Made them run out the records of what they did and give them to me 3. Talked with the Night nurse that was on duty while he was "speeding." 4. Documented everything that happened 5. Got him out of there as soon as I felt the effects of Ritalin were wearing off and I could take him home without worrying that he would have a heart attack at home.
I am so angry it is hard to think straight and mostly...I am worried about the effects on hubby..he is really really tired (but that could be the ESLD). His Dr. said the effects of the Ritalin would be worn off in 4 hours, but it was more like 14 hours, as I was there with him. I feel so guilty that I put him there for his safety and then I can't protect him from a stupid incompetent med aid. Any pointers on this would be appreciated. PART OF ME THINKS< JUST GET HIM OUT OF THERE AND DON"T TAKE HIM BACK>>THEY ARE INCOMPETENT> Thanks for any words of wisdom.
Other than the above, I am working hard to make this evening and tomorrow a pleasant and quiet relaxing time listening the wonderful music on Public Radio. Good eve
Angie1953