Hi Connie,
Thank you for your very thoughtful reply. It would be very hurtful to have a daughter not care to that extent. But, what goes around comes around as they say. My daughter has a very inquisitive mind, as I do. She actually has even since the age of 14 when her gandpa (the only father figure she knew) was very sick with CHF and intensive care. She has watched me work and has learned quite a few medical terms. She is not afraid to question.
I have Barrett's esophagus (a condition of the esophagus from many years of acid reflux) that requires frequent endoscopies to look for changes in the cells that could be precancerous or cancerous. She has often gone with me to those and always has questions ready for the doctor such as: Are there any changes from the last scope or is the Barrett's still there, etc. My daughter actually has bipolar disorder but has certainly come a long way with that. If she ever had the mind to continue learning, I think she would make a great patient advocate at some medical institution. The internet is there not only to look up ridiculous stuff and get on Facebook but also very important information (although you have to be able to discern what may not be good information). Sometimes doctors are not always ready for us and our eternal questions.
By the way, Maria just called my daughter and said she could not find Christopher or his dad and that they must have gone back to work. Totally off the wall. They have been at the hospital or rehab every day. My daughter decided to test her a little bit and asked her if Chris and his dad had been there to visit today and she said "no, I have not seen them."
Any ideas on this memory problem?
Oh, Connie, she had just before her surgery EKG, stress test, and all sorts of scans of her head and abdomen. Hopefully, her mind can get cleared up and then maybe she could be evaluated for transplant. That is my hope at least. Before this odyssey began she really did say that she wanted a transplant.
Thanks and sorry for writing so much.
Georgia.