Connie I think that's different entirely, I think if you have worked hard and paid into society over the years then of course you should be looked after by the government should you need it.
The people I was ranting about
is the people who don't lift a finger yet they expect everything to be handed to them. One day I was on a bus (which is a luxury for me these days) and this girl I would say was about
20 years old was talking to some old man. She was banging on about
how she was being forced out of her free housing by the council and how the council told her to go and live with family. She simply told the council that she can't stand her mother and therefore she can't live with her so the council agreed to let her stay in the house. She said to the old gentleman she made it up and that she goes to see her mum every couple of weeks (who is according to the girl also living in free accommodation). During the conversation the girl told the old guy that she was on her way to sign for her £130 a fortnight benefit which according to her was a disgrace and that she should be entitled to more.
I was that close to turning around and saying "Sure work all your adult life then see how hard they treat you when you fall on hard times". But I stopped myself as I thought nah it would go in one ear and come out the other and there's millions of people like her so what is having a go at her going to achieve. In the conversation she revealed she worked once for a week or two and didnt like it because the boss was "an a*****e" so she had been claiming money off the taxpayer for four years and had a whole apartment paid for by the taxpayer for the same length of time.
Its people like her that I cannot abide, but as her mother and father never worked either I can't really blame her completely for her lack of work ethic and lack of gratitude. Governments come down hard on the workforce yet these people get it easy. Yes there genuine people who really do need the money and the free housing, but the system needs a good shake up to separate the people who don't need it from the people who do.
We are finding it tough at the moment. A lot of people might say then why have a baby? The truth is I did get pregnant by accident I know its hard to believe lol but its true and though abortion was mentioned we couldn't find it in our hearts to deny this little one a chance in life so here we are and yeah we have our ups and downs but because we have had 7 months to get used to the idea of becoming parents we now couldn't imagine it any other way
I just hope I can get employment after this so out child grows up knowing that you go to work to pay your way in life. Anyway that's just me.