update

hello all. just wanted to let you all know how things are going. my mom is home again. with help coming in 24/7. she ask us to take her home .she knows she is dying. we dont know when,but we think it will be soon. shes on tons of meds. not drinking. good thing. the home took care of that one. but really she is in and out of it so much now, she doesnt even mention it. she is much more mellow now. a blessing. i think she is at that point where shes thinking back with regret about a lot of things. and i have forgave my mom for everything. after all she gave birth to me, so im thankful for that. today is my birthday. she doesnt remember, but im ok with that too. we are somewhat closer. pitiful that getting close to dying brings people closer together. well. hope all is well with all of you. thinking of you and praying for you all.

Happy Birthday! Even though I know it's hard to celebrate it, at least you have some peace of mind now... And you're right, at least you have a birthday and a life of your own to be thankful for.

Take care and try to enjoy your day as best you can!

You've done all the right things...looking after her, caring for her, and forgiving her...we hope her transition is comfortable...Mama Lama

Happy Birthday Girl.... good to hear from you.... ok.... mom's actually connecting.. what a wonderful gift...so now's your time... whatever is there... dance in the moment girl... slow it down... enjoy her ... in the time you are given... the rest is behind you... just focus... and Happy Birthday... Sandi