Hi REDROSE-
CONGRATULATIONS on your new baby! I am so glad you were able to do this as it was very controversial as to whether or not I should proceed with the pregnancy with having lupus. I heard both ways from different doctors but closed my eyes and "went for it". I did fine with no flare ups and now have a very healthy 19 year-old son!!! I am so glad I listened to myself!!
You will have a great life with him ahead of you! (My son also loves red hair and would think you are SO LUCKY!!!)
Gretchen