Hi Olivia's mom,
I think I responded to you too on another posting, but wanted to make sure I welcome you to the forum. It is a great place, and a host of information, knowledge, wisdom, and how to.
I would much rather have Lupus myself than to have to deal everyday with my child having Lupus. I can't imagine how hard this must be for her and for you and your family. Hopefully it will go into remission and give her some relief.
I admire your strength and courage.
Hester