Interesting that you all mention your lupus affects you on only one side, my son also has lupus, he is left handed, I am right; I kid you not we can literally draw a line down the middle of our bodies and tell you where the pain starts and stops. Mine is right sided, his is We were both diagnosed with SLE, never knew a thing other than we also had central nerve involvement really. That is until my son moved to Colorado to pursue his masters in immunology and started seeing a Rheumy there how told him he had NPSLE = Neuropsychiatric Systemic Lupus Erythematosus! Now it makes much more sense. My son became so intrigued he wrote his thesis on this topic and published his paper.
He and I both started on the base meds MTX, Immuran, did fine, just they eventually run their course as your disease progresses I guess. I went through them quicker than Ryan. I have been on Cellcept since 2006 or so and now have added Arava, Ryan is now also on Arava. He and his wife had their 1st child in December; (my memory is poor I apologize) I believe he was on Immuran when they conceived. He did work with his specialist to make sure his medications were safe for conception and to ensure his sperm would not be damaged in anyway to cause a birth defect. The doctors did make some medication changes but it was possible to control his disease and continue on with their dreams to become parents.
My grandson is 2 1/2 months old, happy and healthy. I realize it is different because you would be the mother carrying the child, but I do think it is possible and encourage you to speak with your Rheumy, OB and Neurologist.
Best of Luck to you. I know all to well what it's like to be a young parent dealing with this and unfortunately also I know what it's like to be a mother watching you child live with this cruel disease. My heart goes out to you.
Hugs,
Melissa
Wanted to clarify - when I say we knew nothing other than we had issues with the central nerve or nervous system, I simply mean in that area of our Lupus. Trust me I've had lupus for 20 years, I know just about
every way Lupus can affect the body. I've done A LOT of reading and like many of you who got sick and diagnosed long before the wonders of these amazing support groups : )
Post Edited (Melissa D.) : 2/20/2016 8:01:59 PM (GMT-7)