Hey Hippiemom,
I am one who is sympathetic as I hate any body hair on myself. I personally have used the sugar wax kits on my arms, legs, etc and I love it. It has lasted a while with only touch ups needed every 5 days. One thing is I bought the Parissa brand at the health food store as the ones like Nair and others that say they are sugar based have chemicals. The Parissa brand does not have any chemicals, and does not give me rashes either. I hope this helps you a bit with your decision.
I know this disease makes us feel more self-conscious about
ourselves!!!
You said this was not related much to Lupus but to me it very much is. If we are not comfortable about
how we look after having this disease, it is not going to help us with the self-image issues we are having in the first place, and make us feel more bad about
ourselves.
You may not look like the same person, I know I don't, but we are different and have more of different view on life than most others do. Having this perspective makes you even more beautiful when we know more meaning of life and spiritually as well.
Leta