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Posted 9/29/2010 11:19 PM (GMT 0)
Hi,

I hope you all are doing well. As you know I am not on here much anymore and when I am not many respond. I am saying goodbye and wishing you all well. It has felt as though there are "cliques" here and I took much needed time off. I know I don't fit in here so farewell and best wishes to al. I hope all have wonderful experience here and support that is needed.

Leta
Posted 9/30/2010 1:03 AM (GMT 0)
I am sorry that you feel unsupported. It is always sad when people leave, especially when it is over something like what you are saying you feel. I wish I thought I could say something to change your mind.
Posted 9/30/2010 6:55 AM (GMT 0)
I'm usually in the Shadows, but I'm piping up...

I can see what you mean, however, its usually just the same person posting various issues. On this site, the groups our like a family. We nay and yay at each other. Please don't leave hon, you are more than welcome to stay. I always treat ok 99 percent treat all the people nice and fair, well when I do speak LOL. Like I said, I'm usually Lurking In the Shadows, a reader yet not much a talker. I have gotten much support from this group, and I don't even have lupus. I have a very rare autoimmune disease that just happens to be treated the same way as lupus and this group yet still welcomed me. Remember, no one should make you feel inferior. (sp?). Hugsss I hope you stay with us. Love, Desiree
Posted 9/30/2010 10:18 AM (GMT 0)
Sorry you have not found the support you are looking for! I agree, this group is like a family which will probably be the cliques you are talking about, which take work on both sides! I hope you will stick around and give us another chance...hopefully your posts will remind everyone to be more supportive and caring to everyone and not just a few people! Also, mabye the questions you have posted have been tricky questions or questions people arnt sure how to answer? I know when I usually see a post about having a hard time or in a flair from almost anyone...there are several responses, when it comes to the questions looking for questions about blood work or disease activity, they answers are much less depending on the question!
Posted 10/1/2010 12:19 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Leta. I really wish you'd reconsider. It seems we have lots of luwpies (new lupies) recently I'm sure they'd love to hear from you. I'd love to hear from you too! How are your flares? How are doc visits going? Any new symptoms? Anything would be great. I must say I didn't realize you had taken hiatus, but I can't remeber much these days. Still if you decide to leave, I understand and hope you find a support group that's a good fit for you. Love Ya Sweetie, Donna
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