Dear Tinkity,
First of all, welcome!
Second...well, Lyme can do many things to many different people. And it can both
mimic and
trigger autoimmune diseases and fibromyalgia/CFS. This is not very helpful, I know.
I can relate very well to what you're going through. I was in diagnostic limbo for a long time, then I had TOO MANY diagnoses! My story (also quite long) is posted
here, if you have some time to kill...
Pain in muscles plus exhaustion sound very much like fibromyalgia, but are still likely to be caused by Lyme disease, of course. As others have said, keep in mind that a negative blood test does NOT mean that you don't have Lyme...the tests miss about
half of those who do actually have Lyme disease. IGeneX is the lab to use; you can call them and they will mail you a test kit. Just go to your doctor and get an order to have the blood drawn at any lab then ship it back to IGeneX. You do have to pay in advance; a Western Blot is $200. But your insurance company may reimburse you for a portion of that. Of course, if you want more than just a plain vanilla WB, it's more expensive.
Also I should point out that it really isn't just a question of "do I have Lyme or lupus or fibro or whatever", because you can actually have ALL of the above. I do.
I'm hoping you DON'T!
((((hugs))))
JoAnn