Sorry for the late response. Can you tell us what might help? You have a very strong IgM response, meaning the infection is active and you need the treatments. The IgG only backs up your thoughts on it being a long held infection.
As for convincing family members, you may have to show them that with the right treatment for these infections, you are getting better but here are some more links that may prove useful:
Under Our Skin (Lyme Disease documentary - Full Movie):
www.hulu.com/watch/268761
So you know someone with Chronic Lyme disease:
www.tiredoflyme.com/so-you-have-a-friend-or-family-member-with-chronic-lyme-disease.html#.U3dTc3bbS1t
"Dear Family of a Lyme Disease patient"
/www.lymedisease.org/lymedad/?print=printtop-ten-things-you-can-do-for-someone-with-lyme