welcome to our community.
3 things have helped me most:
- gluten free
- coconut butter/oil
- protein shakes - hemp protein is very good
Not sure about
dairy, i used to be dairy free too, but i only managed to get myself starved without big gain.
You should eliminate coffee completely, it will help.
It would be good if you find time to watch this
/www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Rma1co2LCQAlso , you probably know this site, but im just sharing it in case you don't
www.tiredoflyme.com/diet.html